1 decade ago. ? In fact, it’s essential for many of them, but they may not see talking on the phone as a priority in regard to a relationship. Maybe he doesn’t feel god enough. He called me up and we ended up talking on the phone about so much stuff laughing and talking for like 4 hours I know usually people say thats HORRIBLE to do in the beginning because you can lose interest but when most people like texting etc..I figured it was good he wanted to talk. This guy was texting night and day, sometimes we’d chat for hours. HOPE THIS HELPS . I confronted her on how I felt about the calls and she was very defensive. People love to talk about themselves, so give him a chance to share funny stories or quirky pet peeves about his life. Well, he definitely likes you, I feel very safe saying that. In fact, the exceptions are so rare that you are better off always assuming that men who approach you are interested than you are questioning it each time. Ultimately, when you are stuck for something to say on the phone, consider just listening. RE: LONG DISTANCE ROMANCE: True story: Met a guy on the phone, we did regular business together, I was falling in love before we ever laid eyes on one another. Should I be concerned? I've heard this answer in many forms. I’m not a terrible texter. So why is it that making a simple phone call suddenly feels like a big deal? Here’s what to do in each of those situations. There are few men who make it obvious they're digging you. Who ends the conversations and what do you say at the end? umm so what if u talk with a guy for 2 hours. We talked about random things, we asked each other questions. 0 0. But, even more of a marathon when we actually get a chance to hang out (we live on opposities sides of the state). Don’t talk about things just to impress him, particularly if they’re things you don’t really know anything about. Have you talked about getting together? Or any outside hobbies or interests. Follow some basic advice from Dating Coach Lori Gorshow to win her over with your words.. Share Information Through Talking. with my female friends, we can go for hours. Im afraid that once we speak on the phone, the conversation will die. If you're only getting texts after 2 a.m., for example, take note. Leave your phone upstairs on silent while you’re having dinner, reading, or watching TV. Source(s): me. No phone means no texting, DMing, or calling. After a … Within weeks, we were talking every day; that quickly developed into an obsessive six to eight hours a day. The girl feels that the guy is not interested in talking and the guy is just sitting out there trying to search for something to talk about or just wants to keep the phone down without sounding rude. Here are tips and easy ways for you to pick up the phone and chat it up with your special guy or girl. In the morning when I arrived at my bank job, I would call him right away. with my guy friends, our conversations are about 5 minutes, tops. 0 0. Unless you're Skyping instead of talking on the phone, she has no clue what you look like or what you're doing on the other end of the line. Guys are weird and subtlety is not in their vernacular, so if he's acting strange and you catch him watching you, he either likes you or has an unnatural obsession. Can usually sit down and talk for 4-8 hours at a time, only interrupting because its time to head home - not because we ran out of conversation. Talking on the phone is something most of us do on a daily basis without giving it a second thought, and there’s something about not being face-to-face with the person on the other end of the line that often makes it easier to say things on the phone that you might not say in person, right? At one point, I did feel insecure about it because I had never experienced this but now I understand his personality….and even dislike chatting on the phone for a long time myself. It doesn't matter if you're sweating bullets, pacing every square inch of your room, or squeezing the life out of a stress ball. Well, maybe. How do you play back. Over time, your guy doesn’t seem quite as enthusiastic. We flirted etc. Maybe he’s not interested. Ah, the “talking” phase – it’s such a thrilling time full of butterflies in your stomach, sweaty palms and starry eyes full of dreams. If it’s a relationship problem, your answer is here too. One of the best things you can do for a person that you like is to listen. It actually felt like we had become close friends/confidantes…We eventually met up and he sent me a voicemail saying how wonderful it had been… couldn’t wait to see me again… but I had to wait another couple of months to see him again! Sometimes a guy genuinely needs directions, or really is just talking to you to kill time at the bus station. doesnt mean i like them. Many females believe that the way to connect with a guy they are dating is to share information though talking. My wife rides horses for a hobby. The fact that he hasn't asked you out is a bit worrying but he's probably scared so maybe you should arrange to meet up and see how it goes from there. Just started dating this guy and he has been out of town since Monday. What to Talk About on the Phone with Your Boyfriend. Some guys ignoring you and you think he’s playing a game. He'll act shy around you . We got to know each other more. If you guys talk for hours he must have at least a little bit of feeling for you, you should ask him theres nothing wrong with asking. No matter what stage you’re in with a guy — from meeting him for the first time to a first date or even years down the road — it can take effort to know what to talk about with a guy. i always talk to my guy friends on the phone for hours too. My boyfriend is a very active, purpose-driven guy who detests talking on the phone. 1 Ask Him About Himself. If you do call a girl or guy you like, and you don't have a better reason than you just wanted to hear his or her voice, consider being honest. If you both really want that. The calls started in March 2007 and has continued up to May 2007. Anonymous. i've never been a big phone talker, but since i moved to LA all my friends are out of town in SD and SF and i get lonely here, haha. I then went and checked the phone logs and noticed several 20 - 45 minute calls to this number after work hours. If he’s playing you. They're saying the most basic of things: that if they are talking to you, then they are attracted to you. To clarify, these guys aren't saying that if they're talking to a woman, then they want to date her, or introduce her to their parents, or marry her. Our phone conversations do go for hours and the time flies without even realizing it. Talking to a girl on the phone doesn't need to be hard or intimidating. Figure out first if it is a game. But in a face to face conversation, the silence is okay because you can just be with each other. I'm nervous because I've met guys online before, and for the most part, except for two other times, I felt the conversations were awkward/had lots of awkward pauses. I know some couples talk all the time and don’t get sick of it, but I think most people need a break every once and a while. it's funny, i've always hated being on the phone, but now that i'm up here and on my own, i find that i need that human contact more and more. And once you do it will be easier than ever to ignore the first guy. when you’re talking to a guy and he only likes your pictures <<< — stephanie michelle (@steph_michellle) June 13, 2018. Emails over texts are even better. I tend to only attract Avoidant men or "commitment phobes." When your entire life isn’t dating someone, you can flourish while still being around for them. This raised a flag so I went and checked her cell phone when she went to bed and noticed the number was affiliated to some guy that I have o idea who he is. Above all, be genuine. It may open up a completely new avenue of conversation for the two of you. Ya i think he likes u.Guys are not like us,we girls can talk for hours on phone but guys cant.They dont like talking for long unless he likes u.I think a guy can talk for hours with u only if he really likes u. I dont know if that's incompatability, or just not knowing what to say. This is especially true if the guy is not a very good conversation maker. What’s your move. If not, I’d bring that up? 9 years ago. It’s fine to spend hours every day talking then, right? Unpopular opinion: I’m a phone kind of girl. I don’t usually recommend a rebound, but if this guy is ignoring you, find a guy that won’t. But the point is that these exceptions are far rarer than you think. And if you don’t have school or a full time job. #5 Find a new guy. We sorta just asked each other. You spend hours fantasizing about the possibilities of this new maybe-relationship, but something’s a little off. Talking about what you Or other family and friends you should be paying some attention too. But i hate talking on the phone id rather talk to someone in person but i kinda have a little feelings for her i've told her and yea enough about me. I’m not from the early 1900s. Heck, I even used to call Drake on his cellphone, late night when he needed my love. We have been talking for a few weeks and been talking on the phone for a few hours and one day we talked twice one time for an hour or so the second time that day was 4.5 hours. But the difference between me and you is that I know that he is interested in me and vice versa. However, I've never met a guy who is also with the same attachment style. When you aren’t talking all-day, every day, it’s going to be a lot harder to get sick of each other. I noticed from the cell phone bill she has been talking 1-2 hours on the phone with a guy who is a part of their riding club. No guy would bother talking to you for that long if he didn't think about you a lot. Sex hours are those hours after someone is done having their fun with friends, or finished with work, and they are looking for sex. I need advice on keeping conversation on the phone, with a guy I met online. He has a lot of other things he could be doing with that time. 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